This I Promise You

To tell you the truth, I prefer a day with my mother and sister than with my friends. I prefer them because they understand me while my friends partly do. It sounds as though I am not being truthful with my friends, but I am. However, with my mom and sister I am comfortable, while with my friends, I am only partially comfortable. So, I prefer to be comfortable rather than partially. Many of you hate your parents while others do not. I am not telling either is wrong, just wanting to put my opinion out there.

I think there a difference between obnoxious and arrogant. Even though many people consider them interchangeable, to me, obnoxious is when a person is just unpleasant to be around while arrogant is when a person likes to show off their abilities. For example, an extremely loud person will be considered obnoxious while an extremely cocky person will be considered arrogant in my eyes. Sorry if this does not make sense.

I think obnoxiously loud people do not mean to be annoying. I just think that they think they have to prove something. No one needs to prove anything to anyone. However, the people who want to prove something to others are different from the people who laugh at every single joke, no matter how unfunny it is. If something is not funny to you, please do not feel obligated to laugh. If you do laugh or chuckle at something that is not funny, you are giving that person false opinion, therefore lying. Yeah, not nice once we think about it. Society has come to a point where we have to lie in order to please others or we will be branded as bad people. Yes, so when a joke is not funny, please know that we are not obligated to laugh.

I just wanted to get my thoughts out there because I think I need to be honest. I just never want to say something that I do not believe. If you have any questions or feel insulted, email me through my colleague at lillianjuly24@aol.com and I will answer appropriately to your need.

I value your opinions, so if you have a different opinion on something or want to add something email or comment below.

With Love,

Violet Sar Bleu