No matter how great or terrible of a person we are, we will experience emotional distress/harm/exhaustion. Yes, I am not going to lie to myself or you by saying that you will never get hurt by someone because we probably had or will. It is just a fact of life. A terrible fact as well. If we lived in a perfect world, we should find the people who match best with, but we do not. Some of us are lucky enough to do it, but not all. I hope that this fact does not bring you down. I just wanted to state the facts.
It is better to make a mistake then suceed. Why? We learn from our mistakes, not from our successes. Sure, we find a solution to a problem straight away, but more than likely, we do not remember. Shocker. It is human nature. We cannot fix it.
Everyone will meet a jerk, whether it be a girl or boy. Unless karma is extremely kind to you, we will all meet that terrible person who just ruins the thought of friendship or love for us. I have definitely have, but I thank that person because they showed me what person is wrong for me. Sounds harsh, but if meeting a horrible person makes me learn, go right ahead.
We will all be a jerk, whether it be a girl or boy. Most of the time we do not even notice. I was a jerk to a lot of people because they were a jerk to me. We are human. We have double standards. Yes, that makes us sound terrible, but it is another fact of life.
We will get heartbroken. Ugh, ew, not the best situation ever when this happens. It is mostly from the people we love most in this world, but again, we learn from our mistakes. I wish it was the other way around, but it is not. Sucks, I know.
We will be the heartbreaker to someone. Yes, very true, and it is usually the person who loves you most. But, we are just not right for the person. Usually, it hurts to know that I broke someone's heart, but it is usually out of the good for them. I know when something is not going to benefit them, so set them free. Let them be with someone who is best for them.
We break our own hearts sometimes. Ever heard of "we are our own worst enemy". Sounds bad, but very honest. It is usually our emotions that make us think a situation is bigger than it actually is.
Even the happiest person in the world cries. Sounds strange, but I saw a girl who is just a ray of sunshine break down. These people usually do not cry in front of others, but they cry alone which is more sad. So, we should not believe we are the only ones who cry. Everyone is human :).
If I can have the superpower where people have what they want in order to be happy, I would. I hate to see a person, especially if they are young or old, upset. Even though my past posts show the harsh side of me, I just do not like to see this happen. If I can, I will make sure everyone is where they are suppose to be.
Some people prefer to be left alone. I am one of them. Yes, antisocial people prefer to be alone because of some weird pyschological explanation. However, some people enjoy company, for instance my mother. My mother is a social butterfly and likes to have people around her. It is usually based off of personal preference.
Having mismatched feelings is not bad. If we are confused, it shows that we actually do care. It is ok to not know how we think of a person because being indecisive is part of human nature.
When in doubt, go with the flow. I am a huge believer in fate, everything happens for a reason. Whether it be good or bad, it happened. Nature let it happened. There is a reason why a person treats you like so.
Nonetheless, Christmas Eve is tommorow for all you Christians. Midnight Mass is also tommorow, have fun, enjoy yourself. :) Hopefully, unlike me, you will be spending time with your family.
With Love,
Violet Sar Bleu
P.S. Not everyone will harm you. :)
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