Sunday, February 10, 2013

Human Nature

We as humans are stupid, weird, imperfect, curious, and many other adjectives. However, our stupidity and curiousity of our minds take over and tip us a bit to far. Yes, I am talking about all of us. We pick our own battles, not the other way around. There is a time to shoot a bullet, avoid the situation over all, drop a nuclear bomb, and know when to attack at the right time. But, we do not realize sometimes when to do it because our anger or our doubt takes over and tell us what to do wrong when we know what to do right. Stupid consicience. It can make mistakes as we do all the time. However, I am not here to tell that we are imperfect. I am here to tell us dumb things that we do, but never realize that they are so idiotic until they are done. Let's get started.

1. Making a person mad when they are having a very good day.
I do not know about you, but I rarely have a good day. I do not know why. The universe does what it wants to do, and I try not to blame it on people. Have you ever had a great day, but that one person just ruins it all? I have, and it makes me more mad than if I was having a bad day. At least when I have a bad day, I know that I am mad and accept it right away and have time to rant in my mind about how my day sucks. But when a person just decides to get me angry for whatever reason when they know that I am happy, they are dead. Let me be happy because it does not happen often.

2. Taking playful teasing to heart.
In all honesty, I love to tease my friends (playfully of course), and my friends love to tease me back (playfully of). However, some people take too hard. I know when I need stop, and I know my limits. Some people need to learn the difference between rude and funny and the line between it. Whenever I tease, I do not mean it literally, and my friends know that so do not take it to heart.

3. Taking every word I say literally.
Sarcasm is my tool, and I use it everday. By the tone of my voice, we would believe that people would know when I kid. But some people do not realize the difference. Crazy, I know.

4. Falling in and out of love too fast and too hard.
This is especially know in teenagers. Most love stories happen unexpectandly, and please do not expect a Nicholas Sparks romance because it is not real, and someone always ends up dying or having a disease or leaving. So, take it slow, do not fall and fall fast and hard because the outcome is very harsh and terrible.

5. Understanding humor.
I have different sides of me. A harsh me, a nice me, and a reserved me. And we all have different sides of ourselves, and with different sides, we have different types of humor. I have a very dry and sarcastic humor while others have a more literal and goofy humor, which I respect. Of course, people do not understand it and then I am branded as rude. Thanks. This happens a lot in my school. Some people laugh at stupid jokes or things that were not meant as jokes. Please, people need to give a world a favor and learn some humor and know the difference at least.

6. Zoning out is normal, not weird.
At least 90 percent of my life is zoning out. You know when you just stare off to space and finally get out of it and back to reality, yeah that moment. Zoning out is normal. Alot of people get it, it is probably because of short attention span, or we are just tired, I do not know. However, sometimes I end up in Neverland. Population: Me. Hopefully, you know what I mean. But, some people apparently never zone out and make fun of me for it. Every person zones out at least once in their life, so please do not make fun :).

7. Word of advice. If it is not true, it should not be said.
Some people lie to please others. For the love of all things alive, please do not be one of those people. It does not make you a better person, you are essentially a liar. I know that is harsh, but do not lie to please others. Gosh darn it. I am tired of people lying to others to please them.

8. The Internet is not your diary.
Yes, I know I speak my thoughts on here, but some people literally say names of personal people that is not so kind. So, either keep the people who you hate anonymous or just keep on paper, not for the whole world to see.

9. Songs that complain about their exes are not cool, they are whiny.
This is common to many musicians nowadays *cough Taylor Swift*. I mean I bet a lot of guys are probably thinking that she is crazy and I do not want to go out with her. To me, it is inappropriate. You are not making anything anonymous, you are making it obvious. I wonder, does she just look at her long list of ex boyfriends and see which one to write about? He did not breakup with you in front of the whole world, so you should not humiliate him in front of the whole world. So, do not think for a second that you are brave, but instead, you are just obnoxious.

10. People do not realize how many things I can hold against them.
Do not threat me, I have a lot of things in my twisted little head. I may look like a sweet innocent girl, but once you push it too far, I am thinking of what type of coffin to put you in. Wood or metal. Pick your choice. Seriously, most of the time, the people in my life think that they hold the cards when I do. Most of the things I say are repeated, so there is a lot of things in my head. Be careful.

Anyway, do not get offended by this because it may not be about you. Most of the people whom this directed to will not realize it is them because I am invisible to them. Love you all and forgive me for ranting.

With love,

Violet Sar Bleu




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