The posts work by me trying to have you feel better when your heart is not feeling at its best, but I apologize. I cannot cure heartbreak, yet, lets try to have you feel better.
Classification 4
"Boyfriend or Girlfriend being Unfaithful" Severity: Medium to High
Betrayal, cheater, liar, whatever you want to call it, it hurts. You love them, but when a feeling is not recieved back, it hurts.
Go to the Movies Alone: The alone part is crucial. You will feel more independent and can watch any movie you would like. Plus, no need to compromise. It is just you and you alone. Also, you never know who you are going to meet ;) (I met a new friend).
Volunteer: Volunteering around your community forces you to be social, making you talk tp other people. It also causes you to put others before yourself and makes you feel happier since you are doing something good.
Go Vintage or Thrift Shopping: There's nothing more fun than finding a one of a kind item, and then, wearing it. Find a one of a kind item since you are an original.
Take a Long Hot Bath: This relaxes your body, and there is nothing so calming then a hot bath. This also helps relax your mind which is taking a lot of pain (your feelings, they come from your mind, it takes a toll on it).
Smile and Keep Your Chin Up: No need to feel ashamed of the incident. Look strong and eventually, you will not be vulnerable to that person anymore.
Pick Up a New Hobby: Not only does a new hobbby occupy your time, but also explore new things that you never know you are going to love. However, don't force yourself to love something if you do not.
Go to the Fair and Eat the Food: Funnel cakes, cotton candy, and popcorn are my favorite fair food. It brings out the kid out of all of us, so you feel youthful. Have fun at the fair, but don't eat too much food or you will vomit.
Go to A Small Concert: It can be any band, any artists, just make sure it is small. An intimate concert brings the artist and fans together. The smaller, the better since you will feel more connected at a small concert than a large concert. Also, support bands that have yet to be discovered.
Please, do not beat yourself down: In doing so, you are letting the other person win. You are stronger than that, so please, do not beat yourself down. One day, you will meet someone that truly deserves you.
Enjoy being single: No need to worry about his or her opinion since they should not affect your life. Go out with whomever you want, go wherever you want. It is all up to you.
Watch old tv shows: That's 70s Show, I Love Lucy, The Brady Bunch, Full House, etc., bring you back to your childhood. They are hilarious and make you smile. Make sure to bring out the popcorn and candy :).
Time: The best medicine yet it takes a while. Don't worry, let time do its work.
I am sorry that your significant other decided to be unfaithful to you. It is unfair and not right, but the thing is, you will find someone that deserves you. That person will treat like you are their everything, not an option. Best of wishes. Love to you and everything happens for a reason.
With love,
Violet Sar Bleu
"We only part to meet again"
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